1/18/2005

In Remembrance…

Filed under: Friends and Family — Tara @ 2:35 pm
Jeremy J. Pfeifer

This past Sunday, January 16th, marked the 10 year anniversary of my brother’s death. For those of you that didn’t know, my brother, Jeremy, passed away in 1995 at the young age of 19 in a tragic car accident. He was a US Marine (if you couldn’t tell that from the picture) and on his way back to Tennessee, where he was stationed, after a visit home to Kenosha. He fell asleep at the wheel and was killed instantly.

Hard to believe that 10 years have went by since I was a 15 year old sophomore in HS just taking my first finals ever and having this happen to our family. I could go on all day about my feelings about this, but I thought I’d just leave everyone with the Eulogy that my dad read at my brother’s funeral. I miss you, Jer…


Reflections on Jeremy

From the time we received the phone call announcing that a baby was available in Green Bay and the ride home in the snow to pick him up, Jeremy was our son.

Jeremy was a joy and a fulfillment of our dreams. We still can picture Jeremy in his engineer’s cap and his love for backhoes and tractors. We enjoyed reading to him and he loved it. He had a ravenous appetite for knowledge and books.

Truly his mother’s son, Jeremy had a love for music. He started the piano at seven years old and that love affair began. We will never forget the countless nights of practice and his mention renditions of “Georgia” and his Chopin pieces.

Jeremy had a special sensitive side that few people ever saw. He wrote strong emotional poetry and had a real gift with children. He could entertain them for hours and loved doing it as much as the kids liked playing with Jeremy.

When Jeremy was in high school we discussed the military service as an option in order to add more structure and career opportunities. When Jeremy agreed, we met with the Air Force Recruiters. We felt this was more in line for Jeremy as he was more cerebral than physical. Not so. Jeremy wanted to be a Marine. Making the physical requirements was a strain, we didn’t think he’d ever get more than one pull-up.

Jeremy showed us. He went to boot camp, took the discipline and even when he broke his foot he had the determination to earn the title U.S. Marine.

We have had many dreams and expectations about our son that will never materialize. We feel cheated for him and ourselves. Jeremy loved family above all things. He anticipated the holidays and the family gatherings with a passion. We are sure this gathering is especially pleasing to him.

Our only consolation is that we are sure that Jeremy is now playing his music to a higher audience.

Jeremy Pfeifer
August 28, 1975
January 16, 1995

1 Comment »

  1. This was an awesome rememberance of him!!!! Gosh, I can’t believe that much time has gone by!! The pain of it all is still fresh.

    Comment by Debbie — 2/7/2005 @ 8:57 pm

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